Stop expecting loyalty from people who cannot even give you honesty

Take it from me, stop trying to maintain what God is trying to remove. Some dead relationships do not need you forcing them to work, why? because the more you try to make them work, the more you end up hurting yourself.

Letting go of the things that cause us pain is not easy but trusting in God for a better tomorrow is worth it.Holding on to your exes or anyone you were once romantically involved with is never a good idea when you decide to move on with your life. Furthermore do not ruin your present blessing because you left the door open to someone that God removed. You can be kind without making your heart vulnerable because the most important thing is to make peace with your past and move forward because the people that hurt you are in the past for a reason.

Even though you ended up in a relationship you knew God did not want you in, God heard you cry to be free from that bondage. God is going to restore everything you wasted when you invested your heart and time into something wrong. I am talking from experience and i understand how painful it is to let go of that one person you once thought you would spend the rest of your life with.

It is true pain hurts and it can make you act like another person. it makes you question too many things and makes you trust less and push people that truly mean well in your life. But it is during these times that we should always go back to our heavenly father and as for guidance. Happiness happens when you let go of whats gone and be grateful for what is there and look forward to whats coming in the future. Like they say what does not kill you only makes you stronger, everyone is strong in their own unique way.

According to Steve Maraboli, letting go is never easy as there is no shortcut or trick to it. However, you must be committed enough to your future in order to let go of the past. It is never easy and and it is likely to hut but it is for the best. Be thankful to those that did you wrong but pray for them because they unknowingly made you strong.

I will advice everyone out there that no matter how badly someone treats you, never drop down to their level. Remain calm, stay strong and walk away.

Why the human race cannot coexist with nuclear weapons

Nuclear proliferation has been a global phenomenon since 1945 and still continues to be a major problem that is yet to be solved. Therefore, the history of nuclear weapons has not only transformed the military and political relationships among nations but also changed the global diffusion of nuclear and ballistic missiles. The effect of this transformation on international relations is that more states are now capable of possessing and manufacturing nuclear weapons.

The formation of a solitary global economy through globalization is undermining international peace and security. Thus, due to the loss of national sovereignty as well as increased power imbalance in favour of the United States, states are now promoting nuclear proliferation while disrupting nuclear disarmament.

Furthermore, states whose economy has been weakened by globalization continue to make efforts to maintain security and economic development through military acquisition. For instance, a determined state could start amassing nuclear weapons within a much shorter time than anticipated. Additionally, nuclear proliferation has the ability of increasing the chances of nuclear violence especially if the nuclear weapons fall into the hands of irrational human beings such as terrorist that could use it for suicide missions.

Nuclear proliferation represents one of the effects of globalization, and although only five states are acknowledged by the Non-Proliferation Treaty (NPT) to have nuclear missiles, more states such as Iran and North Korea today have the capability to construct nuclear and weapons.

Security is the main factor that motivates nuclear acquisition among states because the spread of nuclear weapons is a dynamic process as the interests of several states interact. Therefore, the possibility of proliferation is based on the strategic interaction between states deciding to secure nuclear weapons against their opponents.

According to the Harvard Kennedy School, 2012 nuclear terrorism is the most serious threat the world is facing and the proliferation of nuclear weapons and radiological dispersal devices by terrorist groups is one of the most frightening threats to U.S. security. This is because nuclear explosions by terrorists group would result in an unprecedented number of deaths (Harvard Kennedy School, 2012). Although radiological dispersal attacks are less violent, it could contaminate an urban center, causing economic and social disruption. Therefore, both types of attacks would have significant psychological impacts on the entire population (Granoff and Granoff, 2011: 53).

As nuclear weapons remain the most dangerous weapons of mass destruction that could threatens the existence of mankind, the Non-Proliferation treaty of 1968 aims at limiting nuclear weapons.  Through this treaty, states have come together to create Nuclear Weapons Free Zones (NWFZ) by rejecting any nuclear weapons on their territorial waters (Magnarella, 2008: 507) .

The goal of the Non-Proliferation Treaty is to create a framework that controls the spread of nuclear material and expertise through nuclear arms reductions as well as the right to use nuclear energy peacefully (Magnarella, 2008: 509). The International Atomic Energy (IAEA) inspects nuclear power industry in member states to prevent secret military diversions of nuclear material. Article 1 of the NPT states that Nuclear Weapon States (NWS) such as United States, United Kingdom, Russia, France and China should not transfer nuclear weapons to any recipient or encourages any non-nuclear weapons state in the manufacture of nuclear weapons. Furthermore Article ll prohibits non-nuclear weapon states from seeking, receiving and manufacturing nuclear weapons or any other nuclear explosives directly or indirectly.

 

Abortion stops a beating heart

Being a good mother has nothing to do with age, but the size of your heart. Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us. Therefore, the life of a mother is a life of a child because the two are blossoms on a single branch.

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God is the giver of life

Children are blessings from God and regardless of the manner in which a child is convinced, be it rape, unplanned pregnancies or planned, no child’s life should be taken away from them. I am anti-abortion not because i do not have a child yet but because it is wrong and is sin against God who gives life.

While teenagers are educated on practicing safe sex all the time, this information is ignored and children are conceived either way.  Imagine your life being sucked out of you before you can even get a chance to say “no mummy, i do want to live”. Being pregnant while in school for instance, does not mean, you should give up on life and your dreams. We have seen people that have made it to the top despite falling pregnant while in university or high school but have managed to get back to their books and made something out of life.

There is no point in feeling sorry for yourself when you discover you are pregnant, why? because a child is never a mistake and abortion should never cross your mind. While your parents and loved ones might get disappointed in you for getting pregnant before the right time,  abortion should be the last resort.

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Abortion is murder and it does not make you “un-pregnant”, instead, it makes you a mother of a dead baby. This does not mean i am encouraging young girls to have unprotected and fall pregnant. I condemn un protected sex because not only can you get pregnant, you could also get HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases such as STIs.

However, if it happens that you get pregnant, abortion should never be the answer because the child you get rid of might be the only child God will ever bless you with. Secondly you could damage your womb to the point were you never conceive in your life and you will have no one to blame but yourself.

The life choices we make have an impact on our future and even when it might not matter at that point in time, one way or the other, karma has a way of coming back to haunt you and you will end up living with the guilt for the rest of your life.Practice safe sex ladies and always remember a baby fills a place in your heart that you never knew was empty.

Watch the video on a 12 year old girl give a speech on abortion.

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The bigger the challenges, the better the opportunities for growth

 

When life tries to put you down, do not say “why me” but be confident enough and say “try me”. Our plans do not always go as planned, why? Because God always has plans different from our own intentions. Talking from experience, life has tried to knock me down so many times, to the point where I questioned the purpose of my existence on this earth. However, the most important thing that made me realize my purpose was prayer. Trust me, prayer helps and even when you think God cannot hear you!.

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You need to take this into consideration

I have made decisions in life that i am not proud of until i realised mistakes make us who we are and help us grow every time. While we may encounter pain and hatred towards those that wrong us, we should always remember that Jesus paid the ultimate price to show us how much he loves us.
I listen to Kim walker’s “how he loves us” and this song makes me cry whenever i think about God’s mercy upon my life. I have hurt people in ways i cannot describe and been hurt by people who I thought loved me enough to do anything for me, until i realised that only God’s love is genuine.
Some people come into our lives as lessons while some come to stay. If you chase away every person that challenges you, then you will never grow enough to realize your full potential. Some people come into our lives to sharpen us because choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you are going to live your life.
Everyone in life faces challenges, it is a matter of how you learn how to overcome those challenges and use them to your advantage. The challenges we all face differ from each other or they may be similar although

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it is true.. life has a way of puling us down but God is in control

I have made decisions in life that i am not proud of until i realised mistakes make us who we are and help us grow every time. While we may encounter pain and hatred towards those that wrong us, we should always remember that Jesus paid the ultimate price to show us how much he loves us.

I listen to Kim walker’s “how he loves us” and this song makes me cry whenever i think about God’s mercy upon my life. I have hurt people in ways i cannot describe and been hurt by people who I thought loved me enough to do anything for me, until i realised that only God’s love is genuine.

Some people come into our lives as lessons while some come to stay. If you chase away every person that challenges you, then you will never grow enough to realize your full potential. Some people come into our lives to sharpen us because choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you are going to live your life.

Everyone in life faces challenges, it is a matter of how you learn how to overcome those challenges and use them to your advantage. The challenges we all face differ from each other or they may be similar, but what is important is how we tackle the challenges and help one another.

You can listen to “your love never fails by Jesus culture” whenever you feel like like is taking over your life because the love of the Lord never fails.

I hope this post helps someone out there and God bless.

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